About the 2024 Survey
UPDATE: The Survey Results Are Listed At The Bottom Of This Page
This survey is primarily to explore crossdressing, but I have found we are all on both a spectrum and journey of gender, sexuality and femininity, so please bear this in mind.
Hello lovelies. I hope you are indulging every fantasy at this Christmas period. I know I am!
I have a HUGE favour to ask.
I want to know you better. I want you to share your story with me. You can of course remain anonymous.
You see, I am writing my biography, a book for gurls like us. Gurls who love the look, feel and touch of feminine clothes. And I am conducting a super short survey so that I can include information from the whole community. Would you participate?
The questions are almost all multiple choice, so very easy to do and I will share the results with you. There are boxes where you can expand your answers too, should you wish to.
It takes a moment for the page to load, but you can see the questions here…
Make sure you get to the end too, and press the final SUBMIT NOW button, or we won’t get your answers.
👇👇👇👇 IT MAY TAKE A MOMENT FOR THE SURVEY TO APPEAR BELOW 👇👇👇👇
THE SURVEY IS CLOSED NOW
By sharing your experiences and opinions, we can really lift the skirt on our lives and fantasies so that we can ALL live more fulfilled lives in nylons and heels.
Your data will be anonymous and your privacy respected. I may use your answers in my book for gurls like us, and if I do, it will be attributed to the name you supply (just first name).
Thank you SOOOO much, and I cannot wait to share the results with you!
PS – Please leave your thoughts below in the comments too, if you want to share more.
Kisses in heels.
Jenny Raven
The 2024 survey started something beautiful. Continue the conversation in the 2025 Crossdresser Survey and read our most recent respondents’ stories.
Explore The Survey Results...

Part 1: Hello and nice to meet you… The Results Of The 2024 Crossdressing All Gurl Survey
Nearly 200 crossdressers took my survey over the last week, sharing who they are, sometimes their wildest fantasies, even their most outrageous stories. And there was frustration and sadness in some answers too. All of these emotions I relate to. The survey is still open here and data does update with the dynamic charts here. Thank you, you gorgeous gurls!

Part 2: Genesis… The Results Of The 2024 Crossdressing All Gurl Survey
When did we begin? How did that happen? What did it feel like? How did you cope? So many questions and so many of us have similar genesis stories around our crossdressing.

Part 3: Frequency… The Results Of The 2024 Crossdressing All Gurl Survey
So gurls, how often do we indulge in our inner femme and get dressed in panties, bra, heels, stockings and a cute dress? The wardrobe awaits, let’s open up and explore what we find!

Part 4: The Allure… The Results Of The 2024 Crossdressing All Gurl Survey
What is it about our gurl clothes that seduces us so deliriously? What does it feel so, right, good, sexy, relaxing and wonderful?

Part 5: Your Wardrobe and Partner… The Results Of The 2024 Crossdressing All Gurl Survey
That’s right, to have a peek inside your wardrobe. Is it hidden or on display? How extensive is it and does your partner know about your femme side? And if so, how do they feel about it?

Part 6: Sexual Partners… The Results Of The 2024 Crossdressing All Gurl Survey
Who do we like to get it on with, while in our feminine energy…. Let’s get into the sticky details. What our past, present and future lovers look like. Always while in heels of course. Can I also just state now how much I have adored this whole prcess? Connecting with so many wonderful gurlies and hearing your deepest and darkest secrets. It’s been my honour.

Part 7: Fantasy… The Results Of The 2024 Crossdressing All Gurl Survey
So what does fire you up the most? I asked. You shared….To get us in the mood, I asked about threesomes first, but this final section is simply the cherry on top of the whole survey. We also shared about porn and what we watch. What fantasies fill our panties the most? Buckle up, it will be wild!

Part 8: Conclusions… The Results Of The 2024 Crossdressing All Gurl Survey
First of all, thank you to every brave gurl who chose to share her deepest secrets, desires and even pain with us all. You are AMAZING! And a little bit sexy too.Second, I am no maths whiz or expert analysis, so much of my thoughts here are what struck me most, rather than perhaps statistically significant. And of course I would love your thoughts too.
I live for all things feminine—stockings, heels, scarlet nails, and above all, the intoxicating touch of another woman. A translesbian muse and unapologetic hedonist, I share my most divine and wicked misadventures in words and now as a podcaster too. All gurls welcome. You are gorgeous. Just like me. xxx
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43 thoughts on “Crossdresser Survey 2024… I want to hear YOUR story…”
I’m 62 years old and I’ve only recently begun accepting the fact that I’m bisexual and feminine in nature. My wife has been very supportive. She recognized my femininity decades ago and was surprised to learn that I never even had a clue that I was feminine until recently. Now, the more allow myself to experience, the happier I am.
Thank you so much for doing the survey. Both you and your partner seem lucky to have figured this out. On balance, connecting with our feminine more seems to me to be totally harmless and I cannot understand why some people would rather we live a lie than to indulge occasional fantasy. Big love to you both!
JRx
You are a very lucky person, so enjoy every moment.
I have to be content with creating characters to live out my fantasies.
Katya x
I am 57 transgender woman just dying to come out of the closet and transition start hormones and transition full time as a woman. I am stuck in fear about taking that leap of faith, for me this will end my marriage in divorce the kids will be told along with my mom and family and job. I dream every waking moment of every single day what life would be like if I were living it as the woman I was meant to be
I know and understand how that feels
Thank you for your survey! I enjoyed filling it out and sharing a fantasy. I have more fantasies I would be willing to share with you.
Oh Silina you naughty girl! Yes please, do share. Can you send me at je***@********en.com. I hope to publish some of the best on the site and in the book!
JRx
Feel free to ask any questions you like if it helps
I will do! Will circle back after this first round on the survey. Amazing results to share too!
Hi. I’m in my late fifties and consider myself genderfluid…..a crossdresser….I’d just like to say, many thanks for this survey, it’s allowed me to express myself and finally tell someone my thoughts and dreams. Also to share my experiences and thoughts about the future. Many thanks.
Thank you Mandy, and thank you for all your support for me as a writer and person. You are very special.
JRx
Am Tom from Germany and into female cosplay fantasy with naughty nuns or nurses. Am a lover of cute crosses and dream dresses.
Thnx for the survey
Oh I adore cosplay, it’s sooooo much fun! What’s your favourite outfit? Character?
As long as i remeber, i always love pantyhose. When i was young, i stole mother’s pantyhose.
When i was adult, i talk to my wife about my pantyhose fetishism.
She accpeted it. With time, i improved my wardrobe with panties, stockings, garter belt.
I wear my lingerie under my clothes everywhere (even at work).
Eveytime i wear, i’m completemy aroused.
And i would like to go deeper with domination from my wife.
Nylons are my absolute favourite, the way they feel, especially when other materials slip over them is delicious.
Your wife sounds great as she is accepting. That’s amazing. I do hope you can deepen the connection and she can help fulfil your fantasies.
You are already living the dream and I envy you.
I love sheer pantyhose, but my favourite against my smooth legs has to be stockings.
If your wife allows you to take things further and she dominates you, it will be heavenly for you both.
Katya x
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Goodness lots of missing spaces there but I get the vibe x
Thanks for letting me relive my journey of discovery and transition! I got to revisit some of the scariest and most eye opening moments in my life.
Oh I can’t wait to read your responses. Sound sexy and thrilling!
Hello Jenny,
I was delighted and honored to fill your survey out and you are welcome to contact me anytime to ask me anything. I wish I could contact you and ask for some pointers and tips to help me with dressing. There is really no one else I would trust.
YOu can send me an email above on the contact foem and I will reply. Or you can follow me on Instagram and send me a message and we can live chat. I would love to hear from you.
Hope to hear from you with more questions
Give me a hint, share your fantasy with me?
I’m in my early thirties and discovered a love for crossdressing with my now-fiancee. Ever since we’ve had an amazing time improving my game, putting together outfits, playing dress-up and acting out fantasies for us both. It’s been a lot of fun and a huge turn on for us both, thanks for the survey that let me relive the whole journey. Hope for more!
Oh you are one lucky Gurl to have your partner so engaged! Enjoy, both of you, it sounds like bliss!
Thanks, it really is amazing. She was really interested in the survey and reading my answers too. We both hope to see more of this, its the first time I’ve written any of our fantasies or experiences down
Such a wonderful partner! You won the lottery and I suspect she did too!
I am insanely jealous of you, but I’m also delighted for you both.
Katya x
Jealous is an understatement!
Aww, thank you!
Thank you for the opportunity to share my fantasy I’ve never written it down before and wish I could be more descriptive my thoughts of wearing skirts dresses stockings and heels are so vivid in my mind and wish could do it for real xx
I know how it feels to reliev, it’s what I do in my writing. I really get how it feels and how indescribably it can be. So delicious!
Laura, I can see from your comment that the urge to slip into something feminine is strong.
I rarely get the chance, but when I do, it’s heaven, and worth the extra heart beats it produces in arousal, and fear of discovery.
I’m like Jenny in one way at least, and that is that I write erotica, so my fantasies become my stories which brings some relief.
I hope you find the courage and the opportunity to dress up for real, even if it’s only a couple of items. You’ll love it.
Katya x
Hi Katya, I do occasionally get the opportunity to slip into my little collection of skirts, bodycon mini dress and heels and yes the rush the feeling is intoxicating. It’s been lovely to share my fantasies and thoughts with Jenny and others who are exactly like me as it can be so lonely not being able to be the sexy slut I want to be sometimes. Laura xx
Survey completed. It was actually fun to do, thank you ❤
Thanks Sarah, I am going to share the results soon. I have now hit the statistical significance point of 100 responses, so we are around 95% accurate! 5% error margin.
Excellent. I look forward to seeing results Miss ❤
This was enjoyable! I like being able to share my story, views, and history. I always hope it helps other people who may be struggling or coming to terms. When I started, there was no Internet, so I learned alone and without support. I enclosed my email in the survey, please feel free to contact me if you would like any follow up or more information,
I too began before the web and now marvel at what is around us. Sexuality was SOOOOO hidden when I was discovering mine and dealing with the shame I felt around it.
Thank you for the invitation to complete the survey, Jenny.
As you know, I write ‘regular’ genres under my own name, but I write erotica under the name of Katya Cumming.
I enjoyed completing the survey, and I hope my responses help. I was becoming aroused in some parts of the survey, like when I wrote about what I enjoy wearing–when I get the rare opportunity.
Occasionally, I have a day alone; when I do, I transform as much as possible and work on my latest naughty story. I believe my erotic writing improves when I’m sitting here, occasionally glancing at my red-painted nails or pausing to caress the lace hold-ups of my stockings.
I just read your responses you minx! Delicious! I cannot wait to share the responses, and in some instances will take the comments and responses and turn them into true stories that will make the information easier to digest. Thank you so much, delighted you have been a part of it!
It was a pleasure to open up to you, Jenny, and you can use my responses as freely as I would allow you to use my body if the opportunity ever arose.
Katya xx