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A woman in a red dress sits at a wooden desk with a typewriter, lamp, and drink in a library, smoke rising from the typewriter—a scene reminiscent of a Naomi Matthews erotic fiction author interview.

Hard Won: Top Ten Erotic Author Pitfalls and Mistakes to Avoid, by DK Masters and Jenny Raven

A few days ago I posted an interview as pat of my authors series, with author DK Masters. Such a brilliant read. She shared the mistakes she made in her career and what to do about them in the original interview, but I broke them out here. Here are her top five, and mine to make it ten! 

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Instagram Is Dead, At Least For Me

After getting banned at 41k users, I setup a new account, from a new phone with new number, new name, and still, within minutes, got taken down again. I am exhausted attempting to merely exist on a platform that actively hates anyone who does not fit their narrow definition of nuerotypical and heteronormative values. So for me it’s time to move on. Where? I am not sure yet.

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How do you tell your wife, girlfriend or partner that you are a lifelong crossdresser?

This is the question I get asked the most. And it’s an understandable one. Most people have a reaction to discovering their partner is a crossdresser. It’s oddly a kind of final taboo that remains ‘shocking’, when in reality, it’s pretty harmless. It’s also a label that is individual to us all. Some of us are at the trans end, others at the occasional ‘fun in bedroom’ end, and the near infinite rainbow colours in-between.

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Why I Do What I Do As Jenny Raven

I began writing erotica during the pandemic as a kind or release valve for the ‘she in me’. Being locked down, I had next to zero private time. Add to that the pressure-cooker of the pandemic, and it’s no wonder Jenny demanded to come out to play. Those of us who have been lifelong crossdressers, living in the shadows of guilt and shame, will identify with this I am sure.

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