crossdresser advice

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How do you tell your wife, girlfriend or partner that you are a lifelong crossdresser?

This is the question I get asked the most. And it’s an understandable one. Most people have a reaction to discovering their partner is a crossdresser. It’s oddly a kind of final taboo that remains ‘shocking’, when in reality, it’s pretty harmless. It’s also a label that is individual to us all. Some of us are at the trans end, others at the occasional ‘fun in bedroom’ end, and the near infinite rainbow colours in-between.

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How I overcame the fear of becoming the woman I knew I was, and have always dreamt of being

The morning of the shoot, I was petrified. My anxiety was so intense it gave me chest pains. Thankfully, my partner had agreed to come with me, something that proved essential to me actually making it to the studio. She tried to calm me as we set off, but even when we parked the car, I said I couldn’t go through with it. She reassured me again…

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A person wearing a red and black tulle skirt, black fishnet stockings, and a sequined top, seated against a dark background.

Just ‘Do You’

I found this photo on the internet and I’m pretty sure it’s been created using AI. It hit home hard because it’s a very clear representation of how I felt as as a heartfelt, formative and confused young teenager.

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