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Part 7: My First Experience With Someone While Dressed En Femme

The allure of materials, clothing texture and cut, makeup and jewellery is just irresistible to us… but why?

Reader Stories: First Experiences En Femme

Gurls, we are spilling all the delicious, silky secrets of crossdressers’ first sexual encounters! 

So, slip into something soft and sensual, pour yourself a glass of something naughty, and let’s dive into the confessions of our fellow crossdressers! 

The Nervous Newbies 

We all know that first-time jitters can be a mix of butterflies and sheer, trembling excitement! My first encounter was just like this, I could hardly breathe. Many girls shared that their first time was a whirlwind of emotions—nerves tangled with anticipation. Some, like Mary and Felicia, are still waiting for their first  experience, their anticipation mounting like the slow slide of silk against bare skin.  I do hope and pray your moment will come. All us girls do. 

Stephanie shared, “Not happened yet.” while Felicia admitted, “I have yet to have my first experience but I am so excited to one day live it.” To those still waiting, know that you are not alone. Your journey is unique, and when the right moment arrives, it will be magical in its own way. 

The Passionate Romantics 

For some, that first encounter wasn’t just about raw, carnal desire—it was about feeling truly seen, desired, and adored. Imagine a strong, confident lover pulling you close, whispering how beautiful you look, and making you feel like the most delicate and desirable woman in the world. Sigh. 

Evelyn shared, “I met a lovely man who treated me like a lady all night. When we finally got to bed, he made love to me so gently. It was a dream come true.” Similarly, Bianca revealed, “I remember wearing lingerie and stockings, and my partner telling me I was the most beautiful woman in the world. I felt euphoric.” These moments remind us that femininity isn’t just in the clothes—it’s in how we’re held, kissed, and worshiped.

The Naughty Minxes 

OK you scandalous gurlies, some of these stories had me clutching my pearls!  The thrill of being taken in full girl mode, skirts lifted, lips parted, feeling completely submissive and adored—some of you dove headfirst into your feminine sexuality without a second thought.

Chris10 confessed, “Much later in life I met another CD, sucked my first cock, and got fucked for the first time. I loved it. She appeared to have a good time, as we hooked up again several times.” Justine KK revealed, “It was with another crossdresser, first mutual oral, then I was on all fours having anal for the first time and I was addicted.” The sheer exhilaration of these first times left them breathless—and hungry for more. 

The Dominated Darlings 

A special mention to my loves who explored the darker, more deliciously submissive side of their fantasies. Riley and Juliette painted the most intoxicating pictures—being tied up, dominated, taken, and utterly possessed in their finest lingerie.

Riley confessed, “I got tied up and dominated in my best lingerie. It was the most exciting and feminine I had ever felt.” Juliette added, “I was bent over the couch, hearing my skirt rustle as he took me. I never felt more alive.” There’s something so deeply feminine about surrendering completely, allowing someone else to control the pleasure, the passion, and the pace. It’s not just about sex—it’s about being claimed. And oh, what a feeling that must be! 

The Sweet Explorers 

Not all first times are wild and reckless—some are sweet, gentle, and filled with the slow, tantalizing discovery of one’s true self.

Mandy reminisced, “I was on a date, fully dressed up, and he kissed me in public. That moment of feeling like a real girlfriend was as thrilling as what followed later that night.” Sophia shared, “We met at a party, and I was dressed head to toe in my finest outfit. He whispered in my ear, ‘You’re stunning,’ and that’s when I knew it was happening.” These encounters weren’t just about lust—they were about affirmation, identity, and stepping into a long-awaited dream.

The Seduced and the Seductresses 

Then, of course, we have the ones who walked into their first encounters fully aware of their power—oh, you vixens know who you are! Sasha, Vanessa, and Kimberly didn’t just experience their first times—they orchestrated them.

Sasha admitted, “I got pegged… it was nice cause I got compliments for my look.” Vanessa detailed, “My wife helped me seduce a guy. I felt so sexy and submissive, and she loved watching me explore that side of myself.” And Kimberly shared, “The first time someone called me ‘princess’ while making love to me, I knew I’d found my place.” These ladies owned their femininity, wielding it like a weapon of mass seduction. And isn’t that the ultimate crossdresser fantasy? To not just be desired, but to be irresistible? 

A Note to Those Still Waiting 

Now, my gorgeous girls who haven’t yet taken that thrilling plunge (yet), again, I want you to know something: all of us in heels, stockings and skirts too short, we hope and pray that your time will come. 

It may be a whirlwind of passion, a slow burn of romance, or an unexpected moment of surrender, but we hope it will be all you desire. The important thing is embracing your femininity, your sensuality, and your journey at your own pace.

And know this. I will be your lover in your imagination. You will be my gurl. It will be all you ever fantasize about. I want it as much as you. So slip into fantasy with me lover girl. I s

Now, for those of us who have been blessed with encounters, here’s what you told m in the survey. 

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"The first time I got fucked while in full girl mode, I couldn't believe how natural it felt. I finally felt like myself."

Chloe, Millennial, Sissy

“It entailed a great deal of touchy feely action and was equally compelling for both of us.”
LaurieMz, Boomer, Regular Crossdresser

“Yes, I met up with a man who loves to have sex with cross-dressers. I gave him a wonderful blow job.”
Caitlin Carruthers, GenX, Occasional Crossdresser

“Much later in life I met another CD, sucked my first cock, and got fucked for the first time. I loved it. She appeared to have a good time, as we hooked up again several times.”
Chris10, Boomer, Regular Crossdresser

“It was with another crossdresser, first mutual oral, then I was on all fours having anal for the first time and I was addicted.”
Justine KK, GenX, Occasional Crossdresser

“I got pegged… it was nice cause I got compliments for my look.”
Sasha, Millennial, Regular Crossdresser

“First time with a guy while dressed was amazing! He loved my look, my body, and made me feel like a woman.”
Luna, Millennial, Regular Crossdresser

“I was nervous but my partner was very into it. She kept telling me how beautiful I looked and it made me feel so sexy.”
Jessica, GenX, Occasional Crossdresser

“I met a lovely man who treated me like a lady all night. When we finally got to bed, he made love to me so gently. It was a dream come true.”
Evelyn, Boomer, Regular Crossdresser

“It was a mix of excitement and nervousness. I was with another crossdresser, and we just let things happen naturally. Best night of my life.”
Zoey, Millennial, Occasional Crossdresser

“I was on a date, fully dressed up, and he kissed me in public. That moment of feeling like a real girlfriend was as thrilling as what followed later that night.”
Mandy, GenX, Regular Crossdresser

“I remember wearing lingerie and stockings, and my partner telling me I was the most beautiful woman in the world. I felt euphoric.”
Bianca, Boomer, Occasional Crossdresser

“My wife helped me seduce a guy. I felt so sexy and submissive, and she loved watching me explore that side of myself.”
Vanessa, GenX, Regular Crossdresser

“We met online, and he wanted to be with a girl like me. The moment he called me ‘baby’ while we were intimate, I melted.”
Samantha, Millennial, Occasional Crossdresser

“It was playful at first, just kissing and teasing, but when he took control and treated me like his girl, I knew I wanted more.”
Fiona, GenX, Regular Crossdresser

“I gave my first blowjob in a hotel room, dressed in a sexy little dress and heels. I felt like a real slut, and I loved it.”
Dani, Millennial, Sissy

“I was so nervous, but he reassured me and made me feel truly feminine. I’ll never forget that night.”
Bella, Boomer, Occasional Crossdresser

“I got tied up and dominated in my best lingerie. It was the most exciting and feminine I had ever felt.”
Riley, GenX, Sissy

“It was just a simple make-out session at first, but when his hands roamed over my stockings, I lost all control.”
Tina, Millennial, Regular Crossdresser

“The first time someone called me ‘princess’ while making love to me, I knew I’d found my place.”
Kimberly, GenX, Occasional Crossdresser

“We met at a party, and I was dressed head to toe in my finest outfit. He whispered in my ear, ‘You’re stunning,’ and that’s when I knew it was happening.”
Sophia, Millennial, Regular Crossdresser

“Being treated like a woman in bed was the most affirming experience of my life.”
Andrea, Boomer, Occasional Crossdresser

“I was bent over the couch, hearing my skirt rustle as he took me. I never felt more alive.”
Juliette, GenX, Sissy

“He held my face gently, kissed me deeply, and whispered that I was beautiful. I cried out of sheer joy.”
Emma, Millennial, Occasional Crossdresser

“I had sex while wearing a pink babydoll dress and feeling completely feminine for the first time.”
Olivia, Gen Z, Regular Crossdresser

“It was the first time someone had made love to me while I was fully dressed as a woman. I finally understood who I truly was.”
Isabelle, Boomer, Occasional Crossdresser

In the next post...

We will dive into the next section of the survey.

Please do feel free to leave your own comments about these stats below and I will be sure to answer you.

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Read the full personal stories behind these numbers in the 2025 Survey story collection — including Victoria and Veronica Vile.

Explore The 2025 Whole Survey...

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Part 1: Hello, Darlings, Here We Are For Our Second Date… The Results Of The 2025 Crossdressing All Gurl Survey

Welcome back gurls. This time, I wanted to ask a few specific questions (more on that in the analysis) and also to lean way more into fantasy. I wanted to lift up your skirt and have a peek inside your panties, you naughty little minx. And I can tell you, some people welcomed that rather delicious voyeuristic probing as they shared with me all their wicked dreams, desires, sometimes even needs. OK gurls, let’s get in bed together and explore each other. Intimately.

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Part 2: Shall We Spend A Fantasy Gurl Night Together?

Welcome back gurls. This time, I wanted to ask a few specific questions (more on that in the analysis) and also to lean way more into fantasy. I wanted to lift up your skirt and have a peek inside your panties, you naughty little minx. And I can tell you, some people welcomed that rather delicious voyeuristic probing as they shared with me all their wicked dreams, desires, sometimes even needs. OK gurls, let’s get in bed together and explore each other. Intimately.

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Part 3: Colours, Textures, Materials and Clothing… Oh my!

Nothing gets me hotter than black nylons on freshly shaved legs, or satin being caressed along my legs in nylons, or black patent heels, red calf length boots, lace trims, and fabrics that stretch and cling to my body sensually, erotically and femininely. For me, it’s all about the material, the colors, the textures, and the femminine clothing.

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Part 5: Why, When And Is It Enough?

We do seem split kind of down the middle. Most of us finding sexual pleasure from dressing up, the rest because if makes us feel more feminine. It’s important to remember that the survey is skewed to an older demographic too. I suspect this indicates that for Millennials and older, dressing up was socially steered into being a kink in decades past, where now I suspect it would be explored more as an identity.

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Part 6: My First Orgasm En Femme

I was twelve or thirteen and it was the start of the summer holidays. And this specific summer break would be the time when I got to fully explore my feminine, sensual and erotic self. I don’t recall if I was dressed for my first orgasm, but I do know that I dressed as much as I could that summer, and always managed to play with myself and bring myself to earth shattering orgasms.

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Part 8: Fantasy time, when wishes DO come true!

I don’t mind admitting it. I was very young when I first had fantasies about having a fairy godmother show up and turn me into a gorgeous girl. If that happened, I could wear pretty frilly dresses, stockings, high heels, make-up, and jewelry every day, feeling confident that I would be accepted everywhere I went.

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Part 9: What Advice Would We Offer Our Younger Self?

This final question is perhaps the most important. If we could trun back time, what would we do differently? There we some wildcards, like ‘Buy bitcoin’, but almost all responses were saying the same thing as Daisy, ‘Follow your femme dreams and don’t push your feminine energy away. Find your community and you will be more free than you can imagine.’

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Part 10: Conclusions

And in conclusion…I saved one question for the end as it may be important, or maybe irrelevant. In my industry (creative industries), I noticed many of us have ADHD, which seems to put me, and others, at some odds with neurotypical people.I then wondered if that had any bearing on my inner femme, my kink, my girlie self? So I asked in the survey…

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4 thoughts on “Part 7: My First Experience With Someone While Dressed En Femme”

  1. Jenny:
    I found you recently through social media & was immediately enamored. So much so that I wish I’d have a survey to take because I enjoyed reading your results. So many responses resonated with me.
    It’s hard to be brief but I know I must – there’s the usual opening of mom’s drawers, the occasional rendezvous with another cross dresser into my mid 20s & exposure to the internet. LEAP forward to age 60 & after years of keyboard interaction & I decide to act. Through a trans support group, I discovered a world I never dreamed of. A world of men with regular jobs & weekend fantasies, men in various stages of transition & people I befriended. I experienced incredible sex as a woman & friendships that ran deep.
    I twice tried to put Serena “back in the box” & failed both times, the latter because of my wife’s illness that led to her recent death.
    Caregiving consumed me & I insisted on putting everyone and everything I’ve experienced behind me. Now I’m being contacted by an old gurl friend who is wondering how I’m doing. I’m afraid to respond because I can’t go in halfway.
    Becoming Serena exposed me to joy I never knew I had in me and a person I never knew existed inside me. I saw the woman in the mirror. Serena was accepted by others & befriended like I’ve never experienced as a man.
    I’m not sure what to do, but I have friends who I know will help me figure it out because they’ve been there before.

    Thank you for being here for us,

    Serena Stephens

    1. Goodness Serena, such a gorgeous soul. Thank you for your kind words and I realy feel your conflict and pain. I will reposnd more fully as I am dominated, not in a sexy way, right now, but I will email you.
      Sending you love and feeling great admiration for your courage. You stand heeld by heels with so many others.
      Huge love
      JRx

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