The Hedonism Of Feminine Fabrics, How They Look and How They Feel Destroys Me.
And you too it seems. It turns out that I am the classic crossdresser with my preferred colours and fabrics completely inline with the survey.
Every girl knows black is the sexiest colour, but the pink is the ultimate contrast, with red licking at her heels.
That’s me. 100% too.
Nylon was and till is my first love. The feel, the look, the ultra feminine vibe. Nothing exists in the masculine world that comes close.
Then satin. But satin caressing nylon? Am I right? Electric. Lace. Oh my. I am struggling to type.
These three materials alone represent three quarters of what we gurlies adore most.
So this one revealed how much we want to be be both an expression of femininity as well as WITH femininity. For me this is also key. I want to be consumed by HER. Her inside me and her I spend playtime with. And that’s all varieties of her. We are so delicious ladies, I love it.
So this is a huge and yet unsurprising revelation. I was diagnosed with ADHD a few years ago and I am sure it plays a part in the girl inside. So I asked the question and a WHOPPING 42% have reported that we have ADHD. That number may be inflated as it was also skipped by some and the last question in the survey. But even at say half of that, 20%, that’s nothing like the top end of government stats that suggest it could be as high as 5%.
Wowsers. What do you think girls?
Voices from the survey
‘Red is the colour of desire, and it matches my skin tone. Nylon and satin feel tantalizing to the touch.’
Jenni
‘Pink is so feminine. All I want is to feel uber feminine.’
Holly
‘I love wearing pink because it makes me happy and I feel so beautiful. I love the feeling of lace, and it makes me feel sexy and confident.’
Cami
‘Black is probably the most sultry, sexy colour. Soft, light, stretchy, figure-hugging materials that feel so nice to wear.’
Donna
‘Pink was seen as too girly growing up, so I like that I can wear it whenever I want now.’
Eska
‘Black and leather make me feel like a Goth Diva. I love that. It brings out the best of girly feelings in me.’
Victoria Sin
‘Black is the epitome of sexy to me. I love black tights, lace and sheer tops. The feel of them on me is what gives me a thrill.’
76starships
‘I love purple, and in boy mode I feel like I can’t wear it.’
Zoey
‘Red has always been my favourite colour, one I find highly erotic coupled with lingerie or a gorgeous dress.’
Julie
‘My favourite colour is green, and I love the feeling of nylons on my freshly shaved legs and lace on my body. It turns me on.’
Gia
Clothing and textures, how they make us feel erotic and girly
‘Pink is for me so girly. Lace and satin send a shiver through me when they touch my flesh, and are also so very feminine.’
Katie
‘Satin just feels so exhilarating against the skin and so ultra feminine. And lycra clings to every curve, leaving little to the imagination.’
Vinny Anna
‘I just love the silky nylon feeling of pantyhose or stockings, as well as a slinky satiny dress swishing around my legs.’
Dianne
‘Nylons just evoke something feminine. It’s not something a man ever wears, so showing off your legs in some cute nylons is just heaven.’
Lore
‘Stockings, suspenders, corset for the sexual turn-on. Pencil skirt and blouse to feel feminine. Outwardly conservative, covering a total slut beneath.’
Justine KK
‘Any shiny PVC dress or skirt — it’s so empowering to feel restricted by its tightness, but massively erotic.’
Laura
‘Pantyhose, teddy, heels. Pleasurable on my skin, sexy, vulnerable, submissive.’
Paula
‘Looking femme, being read as a woman, but having sexy secrets underneath.’
Shelly T.
‘Nylon and satin just feel so good that I get turned on just by wearing them.’
Andrea
‘I love the feeling of satin panties. Nothing else has that.’
StephanieB
Who you’d spend a dream evening with
‘Just after friendship. It would be nice to talk to someone like me.’
Cellophanebaby
‘Private, intimate gurl time — getting dolled up with my gurlfriend is the absolute ultimate.’
Brinah
‘Always wanted to have a girls’ night. My ex used to have them with her sister and a few other women — I’d have loved to be included as one of the girls.’
babbs
‘I’m an old-fashioned gurl. I’m okay with taking things slow — dinner, a bottle of wine, and good conversation.’
Jackie
‘I had an intimate encounter one time with another woman like me, and it was the first time in my life that intimacy felt normal. World-changing for me.’
Flora
‘To have someone who’d understand me and let me be my girly self with her, and create long-lasting memories together.’
Daisy Jenna
‘I’m in the closet — no one knows Sheryl. I would love to open up to someone as a woman. It would be very affirming to be accepted as a girl.’
Sheryl
‘An opportunity to chat, laugh, flirt, kiss and more. I’m a sensualist and a kind, gentle person.’
Garnet
‘Just being out dressed as myself, having a nice girly time, a trip to the bathroom to fix my makeup, maybe some shopping and brunch.’
Beth
‘Spending time with another girl — sitting around in our nighties after a drink, talking — just having that time with someone else like me.’
Amber
The full series
Jump to any post in this multi-part series exploring what over 1,600 of us revealed.
- Part 1: Who We Are, A Deep Dive Analysis Of The 2025 Crossdresser Survey
A portrait of 1,600 crossdressers across every age, identity, and frequency. - Part 2: Part 2: Why Do We Do It, How Often and Do We Go Out Into The World?
It’s the big question. Why? Why am I the way that I am? And why have I felt so locked in for so long? The stats tell us everything. - Part 3: Girly Colours, Textures, Feelings, Playtime and Revelations
The Hedonism Of Feminine Fabrics, How They Look and How They Feel Destroys Me.
I have also pulled some of the longer answers from the survey and made into full interview posts. Please meet the Gurls of the 2025 survey in all their deliciously sexy glory!
I live for all things feminine—stockings, heels, scarlet nails, and above all, the intoxicating touch of another woman. A translesbian muse and unapologetic hedonist, I share my most divine and wicked misadventures in words and now as a podcaster too. All gurls welcome. You are gorgeous. Just like me. xxx
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