And in conclusion…
I saved one question for the end as it may be important, or maybe irrelevant.
In my industry (creative industries), I noticed many of us have ADHD, which seems to put me, and others, at some odds with neurotypical people.
I then wondered if that had any bearing on my inner femme, my kink, my girlie self?
So I asked in the survey…
Self Diagnosis
The national average for ADHD is reported around 3% to 5%.
We have a huge leap to 22.2%. Now before we draw any conclusions, these results are self reported, there could be correlation and not causality, and the national average could well be more than 5% to start off with.
All that said, yes I do think there is a link between crossdressing, trans, feeling feminine in a masculine body, however you want to describe it, and ADHD / neurodivergence.
So yeah, for many of us, aside from our desire for red patent six inch heels and matching nails, we may also have different brains too!
I am not sure what it means, but I think it is something to consider.
What does it all mean?
This is my second all-girl cross-dresser survey. The previous one from last year has the results listed here.
My primary reason for doing these surveys is because I began a journey of self-discovery writing a biography about Jenny Raven, who is my alternative feminine self. Sometimes a secret passenger in life, other times, she’s out front and center and having lots of naughty fun. I adore Jenny and wish that I could spend more time allowing her to control my everyday life. This was the central question for my biography. Why is that not the case?
As I began writing the book, and several hundred thousand words in, I realized I needed the perspective of others, and so the surveys were born. To that end, I’m deeply grateful to everybody who has contributed so passionately, authentically, sometimes playfully, sometimes painfully, always bringing something extraordinary and revelatory to the conversation.
From this survey, I have found that the main theme is to live your most authentic life.
And live it now, without hesitation, as time is ticking.
I feel the sands of time ticking through my hourglass, too. And so this message lands heavily in my heart.
Most of all, I want to hear from you. What your thoughts are, what your feelings are, what it’s stirred deep in your soul, and what conclusions you have drawn from these results.
So please do comment below. I can’t wait to hear. I read them all, and I will reply to every single comment left.
Thank you for making it this far through the survey, but most of all, thank you, girls, for taking the time to share yourself with me.
And no doubt, I will be opening up a third survey in a year or so with new questions that are thrown up by the biography, which I hope will be nearing conclusion, if not finished by then.
Thank you, and kisses and heels,
JennyX
Read more from the 2025 Crossdresser Survey: explore the survey hub and meet community members like Vinny Anna and Stella.
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Part 9: What Advice Would We Offer Our Younger Self?
This final question is perhaps the most important. If we could trun back time, what would we do differently? There we some wildcards, like ‘Buy bitcoin’, but almost all responses were saying the same thing as Daisy, ‘Follow your femme dreams and don’t push your feminine energy away. Find your community and you will be more free than you can imagine.’
Part 10: Conclusions
And in conclusion…I saved one question for the end as it may be important, or maybe irrelevant. In my industry (creative industries), I noticed many of us have ADHD, which seems to put me, and others, at some odds with neurotypical people.I then wondered if that had any bearing on my inner femme, my kink, my girlie self? So I asked in the survey…
I live for all things feminine—stockings, heels, scarlet nails, and above all, the intoxicating touch of another woman. A translesbian muse and unapologetic hedonist, I share my most divine and wicked misadventures in words and now as a podcaster too. All gurls welcome. You are gorgeous. Just like me. xxx
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