And in conclusion…
I saved one question for the end as it may be important, or maybe irrelevant.
In my industry (creative industries), I noticed many of us have ADHD, which seems to put me, and others, at some odds with neurotypical people.
I then wondered if that had any bearing on my inner femme, my kink, my girlie self?
So I asked in the survey…
Self Diagnosis
The national average for ADHD is reported around 3% to 5%.
We have a huge leap to 22.2%. Now before we draw any conclusions, these results are self reported, there could be correlation and not causality, and the national average could well be more than 5% to start off with.
All that said, yes I do think there is a link between crossdressing, trans, feeling feminine in a masculine body, however you want to describe it, and ADHD / neurodivergence.
So yeah, for many of us, aside from our desire for red patent six inch heels and matching nails, we may also have different brains too!
I am not sure what it means, but I think it is something to consider.
What does it all mean?
This is my second all-girl cross-dresser survey. The previous one from last year has the results listed here.
My primary reason for doing these surveys is because I began a journey of self-discovery writing a biography about Jenny Raven, who is my alternative feminine self. Sometimes a secret passenger in life, other times, she’s out front and center and having lots of naughty fun. I adore Jenny and wish that I could spend more time allowing her to control my everyday life. This was the central question for my biography. Why is that not the case?
As I began writing the book, and several hundred thousand words in, I realized I needed the perspective of others, and so the surveys were born. To that end, I’m deeply grateful to everybody who has contributed so passionately, authentically, sometimes playfully, sometimes painfully, always bringing something extraordinary and revelatory to the conversation.
From this survey, I have found that the main theme is to live your most authentic life.
And live it now, without hesitation, as time is ticking.
I feel the sands of time ticking through my hourglass, too. And so this message lands heavily in my heart.
Most of all, I want to hear from you. What your thoughts are, what your feelings are, what it’s stirred deep in your soul, and what conclusions you have drawn from these results.
So please do comment below. I can’t wait to hear. I read them all, and I will reply to every single comment left.
Thank you for making it this far through the survey, but most of all, thank you, girls, for taking the time to share yourself with me.
And no doubt, I will be opening up a third survey in a year or so with new questions that are thrown up by the biography, which I hope will be nearing conclusion, if not finished by then.
Thank you, and kisses and heels,
JennyX
Read more from the 2025 Crossdresser Survey: explore the survey hub and meet community members like Vinny Anna and Stella.
Explore The 2025 Whole Survey...
Part 1: Hello, Darlings, Here We Are For Our Second Date… The Results Of The 2025 Crossdressing All Gurl Survey
Welcome back gurls. This time, I wanted to ask a few specific questions (more on that in the analysis) and also to lean way more into fantasy. I wanted to lift up your skirt and have a peek inside your panties, you naughty little minx. And I can tell you, some people welcomed that rather delicious voyeuristic probing as they shared with me all their wicked dreams, desires, sometimes even needs. OK gurls, let’s get in bed together and explore each other. Intimately.
Part 2: Shall We Spend A Fantasy Gurl Night Together?
Welcome back gurls. This time, I wanted to ask a few specific questions (more on that in the analysis) and also to lean way more into fantasy. I wanted to lift up your skirt and have a peek inside your panties, you naughty little minx. And I can tell you, some people welcomed that rather delicious voyeuristic probing as they shared with me all their wicked dreams, desires, sometimes even needs. OK gurls, let’s get in bed together and explore each other. Intimately.
Part 3: Colours, Textures, Materials and Clothing… Oh my!
Nothing gets me hotter than black nylons on freshly shaved legs, or satin being caressed along my legs in nylons, or black patent heels, red calf length boots, lace trims, and fabrics that stretch and cling to my body sensually, erotically and femininely. For me, it’s all about the material, the colors, the textures, and the femminine clothing.
Part 4: Who Would You Love To Spend Intimate Time With?
Let me be clear, I firmly believe that we are all on a sexual spectrum. And that we can move along that spectrum. Sometimes slightly. Sometimes dramatically.
Part 5: Why, When And Is It Enough?
We do seem split kind of down the middle. Most of us finding sexual pleasure from dressing up, the rest because if makes us feel more feminine. It’s important to remember that the survey is skewed to an older demographic too. I suspect this indicates that for Millennials and older, dressing up was socially steered into being a kink in decades past, where now I suspect it would be explored more as an identity.
Part 6: My First Orgasm En Femme
I was twelve or thirteen and it was the start of the summer holidays. And this specific summer break would be the time when I got to fully explore my feminine, sensual and erotic self. I don’t recall if I was dressed for my first orgasm, but I do know that I dressed as much as I could that summer, and always managed to play with myself and bring myself to earth shattering orgasms.
Part 7: My First Experience With Someone While Dressed En Femme
“The first time I got fucked while in full girl mode, I couldn’t believe how natural it felt. I finally felt like myself.” Chloe, Millennial, Sissy
Part 8: Fantasy time, when wishes DO come true!
I don’t mind admitting it. I was very young when I first had fantasies about having a fairy godmother show up and turn me into a gorgeous girl. If that happened, I could wear pretty frilly dresses, stockings, high heels, make-up, and jewelry every day, feeling confident that I would be accepted everywhere I went.
I live for all things feminine—stockings, heels, scarlet nails, and above all, the intoxicating touch of another woman. A translesbian muse and unapologetic hedonist, I share my most divine and wicked misadventures in words and now as a podcaster too. All gurls welcome. You are gorgeous. Just like me. xxx
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