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Who We Are: Deep Dive Analysis Of The 2025/6 Crossdresser Survey

A portrait of 1,600 crossdressers, across every age, identity, location and frequency. I am closing the 2025/6 survey, somewhat late, and about to open the new 2026 / 2027 survey. I have already done one deep analysis of this survey, the results HERE from last year, but I thought I would share the most up to date figures, comment on them and ask YOU what you make of these statistics.

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Meet Aanya: An Indian Crossdresser on Sarees, Sissy Femininity and the Housewife Fantasy

Aanya is a Boomer occasional crossdresser from India whose answers are some of the most emotionally honest in the survey. She talks beautifully about femininity, the unmatched elegance of a saree, her first hands-free orgasm born from a housewife fantasy, and her hopes of finding a gentleman who will accept her as his secret girlfriend. Here’s her story, lightly edited from her 2025 Crossdresser Survey responses into a Q and A.

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Meet Victoria: A Regular Crossdresser on Black PVC, Dominatrix Energy and a Fiancée Who Loves It

Victoria is a millennial regular crossdresser based in Germany who dresses weekly. She has a fiancée who is “both accepting and enthusiastic” about her crossdressing, an obsession with black PVC and a dominatrix outfit she’s been perfecting for years. Her answers to my 2025 Crossdresser Survey are confident, sensual and full of detail. Here’s her story, lightly edited into a Q and A.

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Meet Stella: A Canadian Crossdresser, Sissy and Switch on Marriage, Chastity and Connection

Stella is a millennial occasional crossdresser from Canada whose answers blew me away. She’s married, monogamous, and exploring her sissy side with a supportive wife who sometimes initiates “Stella time.” Her responses are loving, articulate, sexually candid and beautifully self-aware. Here’s her story, lightly edited from her 2025 Crossdresser Survey responses into a Q and A.

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Meet Veronica Vile: A Gen X Crossdresser on PVC, Public Play and Brutal Honesty

Veronica Vile is a Gen X crossdresser from the US with a sharp wit, an obsession with black PVC and nylon, and a refreshingly honest take on dressing, sex, identity and neurodivergence. Her answers to my 2025 Crossdresser Survey were so vivid and unfiltered I had to share them. What follows is her story, lightly edited into a Q and A so you can read her in her own words.

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Episode Seventeen: The Five Stages Of Rachel Spring

Rachel’s wife discovered her cross-dressing years ago – and the hurt and disapproval still shape how Rachel lives today. In this candid conversation, she describes dressing only behind a locked door, the thrill of a past visit to a BDSM dungeon, and the fear that time is running out to experience more.

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My Podcast Returns! Who Will Be My Next Guest?

I am thrilled to share that I am back podcasting after a forced hiatus due to, you know, adulting! Who will be my first guest? I am choosing to interview more of the people in our glorious community, to hear their stories, their truths and of course, their take on my books.

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Meet Author: Dyvia Etymon

Mind control and feminization author Mistress Dyvia on 20 years of writing, from her first story in 2002 to Patreon, and the kinks and craft behind her fiction.

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Why I Write Erotica by Phoebe Pearl

Sissy hypnosis is a sub-genre of erotic hypnosis built around the fantasy of sissification, the deliberate progressive shift from a masculine identity into a more feminine, often hyper-feminine one.

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