As you may know, I have run several surveys for Xdressers now, and this raising the hemline and form what I can tell, more than filling some girls panties.
One question I asked at the end of the survey, a free-form question, was this. How did you feel answering these questions? The results are startling and drawn from just under 1,000 entries (and growing daily).
So here are the major trends I spotted, with some naughty quotes from the gurls who took the survey. You should know the survey is still open, so please do dive in and share your deepest and darkest with us!
Answering questions triggered an erotic response
Over half of the gurls surveyed reported the dominant feeling being that of excitement and arousal. If I am honest, I find designing the survey equally alluring.
“It took forever as my mind kept going to an erotic place because of the questions. I had to play or in some cases become Jade !”
Jade (GenX)
“Some excitement, a little bit flushed and horny. Katie very much perked up within me, as if to say, “oohhh, let’s dish on all this stuff to Jenny.” And now she wants to play…”
Katie (Millennial)
“I got turned on to be honest. I love talking about my crossdressing and fem fantasies.”
Serena (Millennial)
“This made me very horny”
Darlean (Millennial)
Confession, relief and release
It feels good, and I mean REALLY good for us to share. The tension of decades of hiding for some of us can be cathartic when released. It’s why I adore sharing Jenny with close friends when I feel safe to do so. The relief, release and unwinding is amazing.
“Doing this survey felt much more intense than I expected. It made me put words to a side of myself that I have kept hidden for a very long time, even from myself. I felt excited, nervous, exposed, and relieved at the same time. So overall, it felt vulnerable, arousing, honest, and freeing. Like opening a door I have kept closed for a very long time.”
Sam (GenX)
“Completing this survey was surprisingly emotional. I expected to answer questions about gender and sexuality, but instead I found myself revisiting memories and connecting experiences that I had never fully put into words before. At times I felt vulnerable, because many of the questions touched parts of myself that I had hidden for decades. At the same time, I also felt relief. Each answer made me feel as though I was becoming a little more honest with myself.”
Vittoria G (GenX)
“I Felt kinda horny and warm. But also relieved because it is the first time I’ve described my journey so far.”
Jennifer (GenZ)
Being seen, and not being alone
A quieter but more moving thread I picked up on. For some of us the emotion was more about the fact that someone asked at all. This is why I work so hard in our community, to help bring us out into the light and normalise who we are.
“I felt very open and somehow warm inside. It doesn’t usually happen that someone shows open interest in my inclinations or needs.”
Pet (GenX)
“I felt being recognised, and not being alone or the only one with this kink”
Laura (Silent Generation)
“I felt not alone, with other people like me”
Amanda (GenX)
“It made me happy; it felt like I was being recognized for who I am.”
C (Silent Generation)
Fear, secrecy and the thrill of BIG risk
About one in ten of the gurls expressed fear, shame or the feeling of being exposed, and it almost never appears alone. It is nearly always fused to excitement. The answer below from Becky could be the title of the whole dataset.
“Scared and excited”
Becky (GenX)
“I felt sneaky but aroused andexcited”
Barbie (GenX)
“I felt excited and exposed”
Ruby (GenX)
“It brought back quite a few adolescent memories and childhood dreams that have carried for many many years and spent quite a bit of time looking over my shoulder because a lot of it.”
Valerie West (Boomer)
“Aroused and excited. Also a little nervous that I would be caught doing it.”
Lacey (Boomer)
“She” answered the survey
Unsuprisingly for many of us, SHE took over when answering the survey questions. Some described it as their feminine self waking up and taking over the keyboard. The survey did not just ask about “her”, it summoned her.
“I felt like I was her answering every question, mentally and emotionally”
Elizabeth (GenX)
“Wasn’t dressed when answering, but wish I had been, as I felt Rachel was answering and enjoying the memories.”
Rachel Spring (GenX)
“Liberated, as to speak of Alice and how she has come to be. For the most part, she is a secret part of me who doesn’t see the outside world. But also really horny from recounting all of her exploits and the stories we’ve read… (For context, I’m on holiday and didn’t bring Alice with me so she’ll have to wait to get to play)”
Alice (Millennial)
For some of us, the closing comment was all too familiar and rather delicious.
“Going to dress up now”
Julie (Boomer)
“It made me want to dress thank you so very much for putting me in this mood”
NJ (GenX)
“I’m about to go put on my sexiest panties and stockings the get online to share”
Darline (Boomer)
And concluding these comments…
“I was excited to see it land in my inbox! I adore my kind of connection with other crossdressers and I love to share my thoughts and experiences. I did get aroused filling in some of the answers! My wife is around a lot and doesn’t approve of my dressing these days, but I’d have loved to dress up before doing the survey. It made me feel seen and acknowledged.”
Davina Longskirt (Crossdresser, GenX)
Once the survey is closed as the end of the year, I will deep dive into the data and responses, but for now, I just wanted to share just how much fun so many of us have had answering the questions. My advice? If you got this far, find a time and place when you can enjoy taking the survey, dress for it if you can, and open up fully. You may find it more emotional, erotic and cathartic than you imagine.
I live for all things feminine—stockings, heels, scarlet nails, and above all, the intoxicating touch of another woman. A translesbian muse and unapologetic hedonist, I share my most divine and wicked misadventures in words and now as a podcaster too. All gurls welcome. You are gorgeous. Just like me. xxx
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2 thoughts on “I was so turned on, I immediately wanted to dress as her and… what happens when gurls take the survey”
Just a thank you for creating the survey,,it nice to hav an opportunity to be honest,,although i have to admit to being shy!! Anyway, when I finished, felt so very femme,,and real..!
Thank you so much its so amazing to read all the responses too. Its so wonderful to feel seen too.
JRx